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Holiday
Season is a high risk time for alcoholics; AA history inspires By
Tom O'Connell The
Holidays are a very high risk time for alcoholics who are
drinking, for those who are committed to sobriety, and for the
friends and loved ones of all concerned. It is a time when alcohol
is used heavily as a social lubricant and, unfortunately for many,
personal disaster often follows consumption. Alcoholic
disaster was being experienced during the Holiday Season of 1934
by a
New York stock market wizard named Bill Wilson. He was
sinking into alcoholic despair when a former drinking buddy showed
up and told him about his own spiritual awakening. That
visit would soon have an impact on Wilson. But let's have a little
background information first. In the early 1930s, a drunk named
Rowland H. was in a desperate state, so as a "last
resort" he went to Switzerland for treatment by the renowned
psychologist Carl Jung. For a while he remained sober, but then he
relapsed. Once more he returned to Dr. Jung, but this time Jung
told him that he considered his case hopeless...unless he
experienced a spiritual or religious conversion. Jung
suggested that he place himself in a religious atmosphere and hope
for the best. So Rowland joined an evangelical Christian movement
called the Oxford Groups, which was popular in Europe. The
emphasis was on self-survey, confession, restitution, and giving
oneself in service to others. Also, they strongly stressed
meditation and prayer. The effect on Rowland was positive, since
he was released from his compulsion to drink. Back
in New York, Rowland became active with the local Oxford Group led
by an Episcopal clergyman, Dr. Sam Shoemaker. Soon Rowland helped
a man named "Ebby" to achieve sobriety through the same
spiritual means. And Ebby happened to be an old schoolmate of Bill
Wilson, who was in a life-or-death struggle with his own
alcoholism. Here
is what Wilson wrote about November '34: "I had long marked
my friend as a hopeless case....Because he was a kindred sufferer,
he could unquestionably communicate with me at great depth. I knew
at once I must find an experience like his, or die."
During
that December, in Towns Hospital, Wilson found his spiritual
enlightenment when he was at the depths of despair. "There
immediately came to me an illumination of enormous impact and
dimension, something which I have since tried to describe in the
the book Alcoholics Anonymous and also in AA Comes of Age...My
release from the alcohol obsession was immediate. At once I knew I
was a free man." A
few months later he met Dr. Bob Smith in Akron, Ohio, and Dr. Bob
had his last drink on June 10, 1935. That date marked the
beginning of the doctor's sobriety and the birth of AA. Then the
two of them began their quest for drunks to help. And soon there
were groups of alcoholics meeting to support each other's
sobriety. The
fellowship grew, and after a while they produced a book they were
going to call "The Way Out," but they changed their
minds and called it "Alcoholics Anonymous," which also
became the name of their recovery movement. In
the early years there were six suggested spiritual steps toward
healthy sobriety: 1)
We admitted that we were licked, that we were powerless over
alcohol. 2)
We made a moral inventory of our defects or sins. 3)
We confessed or shared our shortcomings with another person in
confidence. 4)
We made restitution to all those we had harmed by our drinking. 5)
We tried
to help other alcoholics, with no thought of reward in
money of prestige. 6)
We prayed to whatever God we thought there was for power to
practice these Later
the steps were refined and expanded to twelve. Meanwhile, the
groups broke away from the Oxford movement. Wilson, in a 1940
letter, described why AA had pulled away: "excessive
evangelization, the need to avoid personal publicity or
prominence, a problem with the word 'absolute,' elimination of all
forms of coercion, the need for more spiritual preparation, more
emphasis on the principles of tolerance and love, and the
importance of making 'no religious requirement' of anyone." AA
is a deeply spiritual program, but it is inclusive instead of
exclusive. It is not a cult or a religion, and has no rigid creed.
It is based on "suggestions." And it works. When asked,
"How does it work?" a wise AA member once replied,
"Just fine, thank you." If
you would like to know more about AA and its 12 steps I encourage
you to browse through your local bookseller's recovery literature
(or the Internet). Review the steps there, and the literature. AA
has helped millions to achieve sobriety, and the process continues
very much as it was developed in the 1930s and '40s, with one
drunk helping another, practicing spiritual principles, turning to
a Higher Power for help, attending meetings, and learning to live
life on life's terms...instead of escaping into a bottle. |
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