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Habitual speeding is seen as an addiction By
Tom O'Connell One of the original meanings of the word "speed" was "power." A century ago, if I had more horses pulling my carriage I was more powerful than you. And in our times if I have more horsepower in my car I can speed by you and leave you in the dust. The
desire for power through speed is a rampant obsessive-compulsive behavior
in our society, and can be described as addiction. We go for fast foods,
fast cars, and fast relationships. We chase instant gratification, instant
success, and instant access. And we speed up our metabolism with caffeine,
cigarettes, chocolate, and other stimulants. In
a recent radio news report I learned that in a survey of drivers a decade
or so ago the number one fear was being involved in an accident with a
drunken driver. But now the number one fear is getting involved with a
rageful driver. There is an increasing amount of tailgating, with
headlights flashing the message "Get out of my way!" This is
about power and self-centeredness, which are among the hallmarks of
addiction. Are
speeders addicted? Let's see if alcoholic traits also apply to speeders.
An alcoholic drinks to relieve tension; the speeder responds to
inner pressure. The alcoholic deals with feelings by drinking; the speeder
vents emotions behind the wheel. The drinker is preoccupied with the
fluid; the speeder is preoccupied with rushing. The alcoholic is irritated
and rationalizes when her drinking is discussed; likewise with the
speeder. Drinking frequency increases over time; so does the frequency of
speeding. There's an urgency about drinking; it's similar with speeding.
The alcoholic demonstrates grandiose and aggressive behavior, and so does
the speeder. The alcoholic has unreasonable resentments, and the speeder
does too. Finally, the alcoholic's thinking is impaired, i.e. not sane.
The speeder's behavior is not sane either. It's unbalanced. Now
let's apply the five Cs of addiction: craving, compulsion, loss of control
despite efforts to control, and continuing the behavior in spite of
life-damaging consequences. The driver in a hurry craves the adrenaline
rush and the tension relief that comes with speed, and even though he is
endangering his own life and the lives of others, he feels compelled to
pass in no-passing zones, race around blind corners, damage the peace of
mind of others, and threaten their well-being. The speeder loses control
of her ability to slow down, attracting speeding tickets and causing
accidents, yet she continues the behavior despite the penalties and the
risks. This
high risk activity fits in with addictive behavior. Interestingly,
research shows that risk-taking tendencies in young people predict
addictive behavior later on. The risk-taker who goes to extremes reflects
an inner discomfort that leads to habit-forming behaviors designed to
bring temporary relief. But those behaviors, in the form of addictions,
damage the quality of life of the addict and the people in the addict's
life. Habitual
speeders are addicts, and I believe we should look at them in the same way
we have learned to look at other addicts. They are sick people, with an
addictive disease, and are mentally impaired. So they need our compassion
and our help. But they also need to be responsible enough to treat their
condition so they can improve the quality of their own lives, and become
less of a threat to the rest of us. Speeders need to learn to choose peace
and unselfishness instead of excitement and arrogant self-centeredness.
They certainly need to learn the value of the slogan "Easy does
it." Or at least the slogan Jonathan Swift put on his coat-of-arms:
"Festina lente." It's Latin for "Hurry slowly." |
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